Besides journaling and blog posts, I've written a children's picture book and have started a second. I also have a slow-moving start to a young adult novel. (It's full of great character voice but little plot so far.) I really need to connect with a writers' group in my area to grow as a writer and to move these pieces toward publication.
You'll probably notice a lot of poetry on the blog. This is a new venue for me, and I'm learning! I didn't even like poetry until last fall when I picked up Poemcrazy by Susan Goldsmith Wooldridge. It has reignited my love for language and given me the courage to try writing my own poetry pieces. Poetry has helped me to express my feelings during a difficult season in life. When you're overwhelmed by thoughts and emotions, it's sometimes easier to get a grip on them with fewer but more potent words.
I'm passionate about welcoming, encouraging, connecting with, and communicating with others. Transparency is an important part of that; I hope to share about my life in ways that remind you of yours. A difficult road is always easier to walk when it's shared by two! Things I struggle with and that you'll probably read about at one point or another: depression, being timid & fearful, recurring nightmares, and tone of voice. (Yes, you read that correctly! My Mom was right when she repeatedly told me, "it's not what you say that gets you into trouble; it's how you say it." Still learning that one!) I'm so grateful that God knows and accepts me in his mercy and grace and that He is able to change me little by little! Rest assured, He's working on me!
One aspect that I love about being a writer is how it compels me to notice and live life in the moment. A part of my brain is constantly processing events, people, and nature around me and helping me to focus on details I'd otherwise miss. When this habit is combined with a grateful heart, beauty, joy, and creativity result.
About Me...
So you want to know more?
Hi! I'm Deb Weaver, a novice (go ahead and read that as nervous) blogger from Upstate South Carolina where I live, love, and laugh with my husband of over twenty-six years, Rod, and our two children, Ali, 22, and AJ, 17.It's not that I'm new to writing, just new to blogging!
From 1998-2002, I wrote a local weekly newspaper column called Tapestry. It was filled with stories about faith, family, and funny moments in life.
In 2001, a compilation of several of my articles was published by a small publishing house, The Baptist Courier, in a paperback book called Recollections. (Use the information on the contact page if you'd like to purchase one.)
A couple of months before my last column was published, my youngest child started prefacing his statements with comments like, "Mom, promise me you won't write about that! Promise me."
I thought, "If my seven year old feels this way, my thirteen year old probably feels the same." That realization, combined with the increasing difficulty of a relentless deadline, made the decision to stop writing the column easy.
Lots of life has happened since that point.
The kids have grown. I have grown.
Joy. Laughter. Memories. Friendships.
Challenges. Busyness. Fights. Making up.
Bible studies. Ministry. Journaling. Reading.
Part-time job in a funeral home (which I currently hold)
Tears. Loss. Heartaches. Grief. Healing.
Like I said, a lot of life.
Despite the family's encouragement to start again, the public writing part of me was placed on a shelf--a really high one--and stayed there all this time. I feared perhaps forever.
I questioned my abilities, my calling.
I listened to the spector of fear to the point of paralysis. Its accusing, taunting voice dogged my every thought and stopped me from doing what I love. "What if you have nothing to say?"
Yet again and again I returned to my "sweet spots"--those things that I'm uniquely made to do--and writing is smack dab in the middle of them.
So one day last fall, I got sassy and bold. I spoke back to this faceless voice that had taken up residence inside me. I simply answered Fear's question. I said, "You're right. I have nothing to say. ...And that is okay!"
I was struck with the truth and the simplicity of it. Joy dawned. I was free from the paralyzing grip of fear. I can write and enjoy writing because I don't have to say anything. I can experiment with language and ideas for the love of it. I can watch and listen and learn without worry. I can follow Jesus and please Him with the joy of creating.
And perhaps in the process of sharing life, thoughts, and words here, we'll hear what God has to say. That's more important anyway.
What I'm writing now:
Still with me?
Trivial tidbits follow:
Favorite Comfort Movies: The Emperor's New Groove (a favorite of the whole family) & Game Plan (My kids hate watching this movie and have to be coerced into doing so. Don't call DSS.)
Favorite Place: A beach. Any beach. I grew up in Michigan three blocks from Lake Huron, so sand and surf are a part of my DNA.
Pet Peeves: Rolling eyes. Lying. Being called "Debbie." Oh, and ridiculous songs by the Beatles. (There's a whole list of their songs that my kids are banned from singing, and "Yellow Submarine" tops the list. I just hope they don't get back at me by playing it at my funeral. You're in charge of making sure that doesn't happen.)
Purposeful Writing Quirks: Generally I am a rule-keeper by nature; however, when it comes to certain grammatical/syntactical commands I am a criminal felon! Case in point: You've probably already noticed this...but I adore exclamation points!!!! As a writer, I know to use only one, but they seem to be made for exuberance! And the more exuberant, the better!!!! WRITING IN ALL CAPS also accomplishes this feeling! Another example: I know it's not proper to begin a sentence with a conjunction or to use fragments as sentences. I just tend to write like I speak, rather informally, even though it means breaking the law. I hope it'll be an endearing quality rather than an annoying one. Picture me smiling at you, eyes shining, my arms flailing around to emphasize my points. There, does that help?
The punctuation mark that mocks me: Commas! Arggh! I want to follow them, but the rules of commas confuse and confound me! Rules I learned in school have been called into question by my children's teachers of today. If you have a firmer grip (and that would not be difficult at this point) on the best usage of commas, please instruct me. Clear examples and perhaps colored pictures may help.
How You May Picture Me Writing: At times with my laptop, other times with paper and pen, and occasionally on restaurant napkins. Usually with my favorite hot beverage, tea. I write in a variety of places ranging from my home to the park to coffee shops to Burger King.
Dog or Cat Person? Though we don't have either at this time, I have a passionate preference. Cat, definitely cat. (Ducking from zealous dog lovers.)
Personal Kryptonite: Babies. (I swear I was born with an internal infant magnet! Love them!) M&M's or Hershey's Chocolate. (Forget that fancy junk! Give me the good stuff!) Oh, and the Sweet Potato Cake from The Brick Street Cafe in Greenville, SC. It's divine! (And I'm not a fan of sweet potatoes. Weird. I know.)
Collections: Teapots, baskets, roosters, snowmen, clutter, and dust bunnies.
Olympic Skill: Procrastination (although my children are also shooting for the Gold in this department...apparently it's a family sport.)
Favorite Activities: Reading, writing, napping, eating out (and if they happen along a beach... well, can't you hear the angels singing?!)
Favorite Season: Spring in South Carolina is lovely, although Autumn is starting to woo my heart as well. Summer is nice, but hot and humid. Really hot. And did I mention sticky?
The most important thing you need to know about me: I am a horrible housekeeper. This is an area where my aforementioned Olympic skills really shine. Unfortunately. When one wants to visit, advance application (in triplicate) must be submitted at least three years in advance. Even then you can't expect much. I kid you not.
Too much information?
Well, I'm sure that was more than you really needed or wanted to know! I apologize! Without a doubt, I'm wordy!
Let's get acquainted!
I hope you'll be back often and that we'll connect through this blog.
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Until next time,
Deb
Keeping in touch:Opportunites to email me, send snail mail, or find The Word Weaver page on Facebook or DebWordWeaver on Twitter are located on the Contact Me page.
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Until next time,
Deb
...Treasured shot of a couple of my favorites! It was taken by a dear, talented friend, Mary Kerkes of image33photography. She's an amazing photographer in Michigan. Here's her website address: www.image33photography.com
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